Aquarius men are very different from other guys when it comes to getting into romantic relationships. If the guy you like is an Aquarius, then you'll need to understand how he thinks. This article will help you learn how to get him to return the affection.
Before we begin, here are the important things you need to know about men born under this tropical zodiac.
Strengths: Independent, original, progressive, empathetic;
Weaknesses: Avoids emotional vulnerability, aloof, volatile, stubborn;
Aquarius likes: Intellectual conversation, socializing, helping others, listening to others, advocating good causes;
Aquarius dislikes: Feeling lonely, being bored, constraints, disappointments, disagreeable people;
Bearing all of this in mind, here are some clever little ways to win over your Aquarius crush.
1. First, be his friend
When figuring out how to get an Aquarius guy to consider you as a girlfriend, first make the effort to get to know him as a friend while allowing him to get to know you as a friend, too. This is the best way to truly understand another person before the complexity of romantic feelings gets involved.
2. Intellectual conversations will always be welcomed
Aquarius men love to talk. The deeper and the more interesting the topic is, the better it is to talk about. Capturing your guy's attention by stimulating his mind with intelligent conversations will help you to forge a solid foundation for your friendship, which will hopefully blossom into a relationship.
Conversation topics don't have to be philosophy or quantum physics. They only need to be things that you're both interested in, even if it's just sharing meaningful experiences from your pasts.
3. Be a woman of your word
From our description of the characteristics of Aquarius men listed above, you'll see it's important that the people they interact with are dependable. These men do not like being disappointed by people who go back on their word.
So make sure that you follow through with any plans or promises you make with them. Otherwise, you might permanently lose their trust, respect, and the opportunity to get close to them.
4. Ask for his help/advice
Learning how to win an Aquarius man is different from winning men from any other star sign. But luckily, in some ways, they are the same. Aquarian men like to feel needed. You can make a man feel needed in some simple ways, like asking them for their help or advice.
This also lets them know that you respect them and believe they are wise or capable enough to handle small problems well. This does not mean they like women who are dependent on them, so show your weakness occasionally (not many times).
5. Be prepared to persuade him to do things
Aquarius men can be kind of stuck in their ways. If you want him to do something that is outside of his comfort zone, you will most likely have to think of ways to persuade him. Don't expect him to be a pushover about things once he has made up his mind.
An Aquarius man can be quite stubborn when he wants to be. I would advise that you try your best to persuade them sweetly rather than with force or threats. According to my experience with Aquarius men, this usually works out better for you in the longer term, too.
6. Be passionate about a cause
Men born between January 21st and February 20th are always looking for a good cause to stand up for. If he sees that you are passionate about particular causes, he'll feel that you have some important traits in common. Just imagine how romantic it will be for you to fight side by side for the things you both believe in.
7. Be (a little) mysterious
When trying to attract any man, a good piece of advice is to be mysterious. But in the case of Aquarius men, this is especially true. We know that these water-bearer guys can be a little (or a lot) aloof at times. The one way to counter this is to be mysterious. Don't let them know everything about you right away.
Let him ask the questions about your ex l, and when he does, don't give him a straight answer. If he asks, "What are you up to this weekend?", you can say something vague like "Oh, just one or two things with a friend". Then change the subject. Leave him wondering about the things you've left unsaid, as this will pique his interest in you.
8. Give him his space
Knowing how to win over an Aquarius man will require some self-discipline on your part. Although things might be going great, you're getting closer and enjoying spending time together, it's important to know when to back off. I've noticed that many women really struggle with this.
In the early stages of their relationship, they get so carried away with the wonderful feeling of the attention and affection the guy is giving them that they always want to be with him or chat with him. He's probably enjoying it, too. But for a deeper connection to be established, it's vital that you give him some space and time to miss you.
Remember that Aquarius men are famously independent. He might be your main source of happiness and companionship, but you probably won't be his. As soon as you see his aloofness creep in, it's a sign that giving him some space will get his attention fully back on you.
9. Don't leave him feeling lonely
As much as it's important that you give him a lot of time and space, it's important that you don't overdo it. If you start spending too much time away from him because you think he doesn't need you around, you might end up losing him.
If he finds himself lonely while dating you, it's possible that he'll believe that this is the way it will always be. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't seem to have the time for them.
10. Try to understand how he expresses his emotions
One of the things that makes an Aquarius man so different from other men is that they're hard to read. They often suppress their emotions and struggle to express themselves when they do attempt to open up.
Therefore, if you want to know how to get an Aquarius man to commit to you, you'll have to understand the little ways he shows how he feels. Maybe in time, you can encourage him to be more vulnerable with you so that you can build a trusting and loving relationship.
Summary
Some astrologers might say that Aquarius men are mostly compatible with certain zodiac signs, but this is not strictly true.
Once you know how to get an Aquarius man to see you as a girl who understands him and has things in common with him, then you are also compatible with him, regardless of your star sign.
Follow the advice given above, and you'll be sure you win your way into your Aquarius man's heart.