From the moment you shared your first polite peck with your date, you've probably been thinking about taking it to the next level: French kissing. How romantic it will be to kiss your sweetheart under the moonlit sky (or an equally scenic setting).
French kissing is an important part of courting, as it builds up the passion and intimacy that help create the foundation of your physical bond. So it's worth the time to brush up on your technique.
This article goes over some of the best tips for perfecting your French kissing skills.
Tip 1: Prepare
The first tip for how to French kiss like they do in the movies is to prepare. This preparation starts at the beginning of your day. Make sure that you've practiced good dental hygiene. Brush and floss thoroughly; you can even use a tongue scraper just so you can be 100% confident that your breath is fresh later on.
Try also using a lip exfoliating scrub if you usually suffer from dry, chapped lips. Trust us - kissing someone with rough lips is not sexy at all (it's like being kissed by a tree). Carry lip balm with you if necessary, and be sure to apply a little after eating.
Tip 2: The Right Place and the Right Time
Where you decide to make your move, it needs to be well thought out. The location will need to be private so that you can relax and enjoy it. It should also be comfortable so that the kiss can be as long as you both want it to be.
The top spot for French kissing in private seems to be cars. If you want to go for it in your car, then just make sure you're parked somewhere remote, private, and dark so that you are not rudely interrupted.
Tip 3: Eye Contact
I would imagine that if a French man were to explain how to French kiss, he would probably stress the importance of eye contact. Gazing into the eyes of the person you care for has extra sensual effects on your body and mind. Of course, it's tricky keeping eye contact and kissing at the same time, but even a little eye contact will have the positive effect of letting your partner know how much you want her.
Tip 4: Take Initiative
When it comes to romantic French kissing, fortune favors the bold! You will need to confidently initiate the kiss. Look into your bae's eyes and keep glancing down at her lips when she talks to you; she'll understand what's on your mind.
You can also reach out to stroke the side of her face and guide her head towards yours. If she easily moves towards you too, you'll know she wants the kiss just as much as you do.
Tip 5: Start Gently
If it's in the early days of your dating, then it's good to start slow. Launching into a French kiss only works in particular (passionate) circumstances. Otherwise, your girl could feel more attacked than seduced.
Be gentle when you start the kiss. Softly use your lips, and avoid going straight in with the tongue. Kissing her for a few moments with just the lips will build her desire to feel your tongue. Making her want it makes the experience more intense for you both.
Tip 6: Tilt Your Head
In the movies, we see quite a bit of head tilting going on, but in real life, lots of movement isn't necessary. We tilt our heads to avoid bumping noses. But then, a little bumping of noses isn't really a problem either - it's part of the intimacy.
Don't be too concerned about whose head goes in which direction. You'll naturally find a position that's comfortable.
Tip 7: Body Contact
Body contact is just as important as eye contact. Keeping your body at a distance from your date will make French kissing feel cold and stiff. Holding and stroking each other's bodies expresses your desire for physical contact with them and increases pleasant sensations.
Tip 8: Use Your Tongue Wisely
Understanding the right balance of the lip-to-tongue ratio is the mark of a true French kissing master. Studies have shown that women prefer to feel more lips and less tongue, whereas men enjoy the deep tongue action. Using the right amount of both will up your kissing skills by quite a lot.
Tip 9: Variety Is the Spice of Life
When you're French kissing, remember to change it up. Vary your speed, pressure, and position. Follow your partner's lead, and take control of the kiss. All of this will help make the experience more exciting, and it will also help you learn what your partner likes.
Tip 10: Feel Free to Take a Break
Don't take yourselves too seriously. French kissing is supposed to be fun. Feel free to take a break to catch your breath and to give your kissing partner time to catch her breath, too. Smile at her and say something sweet like, "I've been thinking about you all day."
Tip 11: The Perfect Ending
How to end a French kiss could be a source of uncertainty, too. Don't stop abruptly, as this can leave you both feeling awkward. The best and most natural way is to slow right down.
You can bring your hands to her face to turn the French kissing back to regular kisses. Giving her a final few pecks will let her know that you want to stop, and she'll get prepared to stop as well.
Summary
Now that you know the best tips for how to French kiss, you can smooch your girl with the confidence of a heartthrob from your favorite romantic film. Remember the tips described above, and you'll be sure to enjoy much more perfectly passionate French kissing in your future.