What to do when you've met a gorgeous and amazing girl, and everything goes fine until she just starts pulling away when you try to hug or kiss her? There are many reasons which can explain why women pull away from time to time, and it's not always that bad, so don't lose hope. Don't instantly fall into a whirlpool of dark thoughts, for example, "She pulls away when we get close, it's over," or something like that. Women are sensitive and also prone to overthinking. You never know what the true reason is. I will reveal you nine most possible reasons why she pulled away, so keep reading.
1. She wants you to chase her
Actually, this is one of the most frequent reasons why women pull away, and, to be honest, it's a bit of an immature move. Many girls think that if they seem distant and uninterested, they will be able to control you, and that you will be completely head over heels for them. Don't give in to this little trick of hers. If this is her true reason for pulling away, start ignoring her as much as she ignores you. If you respond the opposite way, she will realize the possibility of losing you. As a result, a girl will try to restore your relationship. Honestly, women who try to pull away only to seduce someone are usually not worthy of your time, since such behavior proves that they are not mature enough.
2. She thinks you are not serious
Sometimes girls misinterpret the signals they get. Maybe she just misunderstood you and thought that you had had something else on your mind. Don't worry and try to be more open the next time. I know it will be hard, but not only don't you have something to lose. You can also show a lot of courage. Courageous men are always impressive, so don't lose a precious girl over a mere misunderstanding.
3. She is not ready yet
There is a possibility that she has no experience whatsoever, so she got scared as you got closer to her and indeliberately pulled away. If she shows every sign that she likes you, but doesn't let you get too close, then you should ask her what the problem is. Or you can just try to relax her bit by bit. You can hold her hand and then get closer. Girls with little or no experience with men are much timider, so you should watch out. Try to ask around and find out if she has had a boyfriend before, or you can even ask her.
4. She's actually not that into you
First thing you have to know that it's not your fault if someone doesn't have a crush on you, so don't let this lower your self-esteem. If she's not into you, you will know that by trying to test her boundaries. Try to touch her hand or shoulder. If she looks uncomfortable, but she doesn't say anything, there is a chance that she doesn't like you that much. Maybe she even changed her mind. Sometimes, girls are so in love the first day, and literally, get gone with no trace on the fifth day. If she just leaves without explanation and doesn't show up when you ignore her, then leave her be.
5. You misinterpreted something
Maybe it seemed to you that you were flirting, while she was only being friendly. If this kind of misunderstanding happens, openly talk it out with her. If she hangs out with you frequently, that means that she enjoys your presence and likes your personality. Maybe she just likes spending time with you.
6. She already has someone else
If she obviously really likes you but instantly pulls away when you try to get close to her, that can happen if she's already in a relationship. It's not a sin to meet someone new and get to like him, but cheating should never be an option for anyone. If this is the case, you have two options: to try to win her heart or to abort the mission. It's up to you to decide, but if she actually wants to stay in her current relationship, you should probably leave her be.
7. She considers you a friend
A conversation can settle anything up, so if she pulled away looking very surprised, that's probably because she considers you a friend and nothing more than that. You can make a joke about it in the end, and you can stay friends.
8. She thinks you only want sex
No generalization is good, but women tend to think that many men want only to use them physically. Maybe it has happened to her before, so she is now scared of trusting someone new. My advice is not to be fake but very patient. You have to gain her trust, and you will do it by standing by her side when she needs you.
9. She doesn't see the future with you
Women love to look ahead, and they do it constantly and try to control things a bit. Maybe she indeed likes you, but she just can't imagine a serious relationship with you. In most cases, women want stable and long-lasting relationships. If she thinks that you are not the guy who would devote himself completely to that relationship, she will pull away when you try to get closer to her. It would be best if you asked about her true feelings.
Summary
Don't get scared and concerned if she pulls away from you. There are so many reasons why she had to do it, so try to be understandable and as objective as possible. Try to find out what her reason is by watching closely for the clues in her behavior and body language or simply by asking her. Don't be too direct or seem angry because it might silence her. All in all, you deserve to know why she pulled away.