100 Dirty Questions to Spice up Your Evening

Dirty questions are a great way to add spice to your relationship. While you shouldn't be too aggressive in the early stages, a little pillow talk can add a lot of excitement to the bedroom. Let your partner be your guide in whether it might be too much or too little. Most importantly, remember to have fun.

Dirty Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

Here's some inspiration for you men. You might be hesitant at first and not know what to say. Here are 50 dirty questions to ask your girlfriend to get you started. Let's break it down into questions so you can explore which ones she responds to best.

Talk about her looks. Let her know how sexy you find her. This is an excellent warm-up for the early evening.

• How is your hair so shiny?

• Why do you smell so good?

• Do you know how inviting your lips look?

• Why is your voice such a turn on?

• When will you ever stop driving me crazy?

• Why don't you put on something sexy?

• Can I just look at you for a moment?

• How are your hands so soft?

• Is that excitement in your eyes?

• Is your heart racing?

Once you're both in the mood, you can now express your wants, desires, and intentions more freely. This is the perfect time to turn your dirty talk with gf into action. The key is to keep communication open. After all, you're seeking to enhance the mood and not distract from it.

• Where is your favorite spot to be kissed?

• Does talking dirty turn you on?

• Do you want to put on some lingerie for me?

• What is something you wanted to do but you never had the nerve to ask?

• Tell me how much you want me?

• What do you want me to do now?

• Will you show me how you like to be touched?

• Where shall I kiss you next?

• Do you want to spice things up tonight?

• Do you want me to pull your hair?

• Why are you still dressed?

• Are you as excited as I am?

Perhaps the greatest use of dirty talk is exploring fantasies to spice up the bedroom. Once you're comfortable with your girlfriend, you can find out what fantasies you share and turn into reality.

• What is your favorite office fantasy?

• What would you like to see me dressed in?

• Where is your favorite place to make love?

• Do you have any police fantasies?

• Do you want me to send you dirty texts?

• Do you like to give up control?

• Do you want to have sex in public?

• Do you want me to tell you what to do?

• Do you like getting tickled?

• When was your first kiss?

• Do you want me to caress you?

• Where do you want my hands?

• Do you like to be held down?

• Shall I kiss you wherever I like?

• What's your favorite part of my body?

• Do you want to try phone sex?

• Do you want to go skinny dipping?

Lastly, let's not forget that your girl like most girls, most probably wants romance. Making an emotional connection during intimacy will go far in getting her more in the mood. So while these might not technically be dirty questions to ask your girlfriend, they'll nonetheless have the same effect.

• Do you know how much I want you?

• What is it about you that makes everything so much better?

• Why do you excite me so much?

• How can I ever stop thinking about you?

• Do you know how perfect you are?

• Do you know what you do to me?

• Why can't we be together every moment?

• Do we ever have to get out of bed?

• Is this what heaven is like?

• Do you want to snuggle?

• Will you always look at me like that?

Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

We've covered dirty questions to ask your girlfriend. What about a list for the girls though? Fear not, ladies. Here are 50 dirty questions to ask your man.

Guys sometimes like it when girls take the lead in bed. Be bold and aggressive. Try these lines to get your man warmed up in a hurry.

• Do you like it when I talk dirty to you?

• Do you want me on top?

• What is your naughtiest fantasy?

• Tell me where you want to kiss me?

• Do you picture me when you touch yourself?

• Have you ever had a naughty dream about me?

• Guess what I'm not wearing right now?

• Will you send me a sexy picture?

• What's your favorite toy?

• What's your kinkiest desire?

• What's the last dirty dream you remember?

• Do you want me to not wear underwear tonight?

• When was an embarrassing time you got aroused?

• What arouses you about me?

• Have you ever tried it in a bathtub?

• Would you like to watch me in a changing room in the public?

• If you could have me anywhere, where would it be?

• Do you want me to answer the door for you naked?

• Do you prefer me natural or shaved?

• Would you prefer me in a short skirt or tight jeans?

• Have you ever thought about me with another girl?

• When was the first time you had sex?

• Is there anything you're afraid to try in the bedroom?

• Have you slept with someone at work before?

• Do you prefer sex in the morning or at night?

Once you've got your guy hooked it may be time to spread your wings and try something new. Talking dirty to your guy is a great way to find out what he's really interested in.

• Do you want me to strip for you?

• Do you want to kiss and touch me in public?

• Do you want to see me touch myself?

• Do you want to play strip poker?

• Do you want to try bondage?

• Do you want to try it in the shower?

• Would you like to get a lap dance?

• What sex position have you never tried but want to?

• Do you want to come inside me?

• Do you want me to give you head?

• Can I bite you?

• Do you want to take pictures of me?

• Would you like me to wear only heels all night?

• Do you want me to be aggressive or submissive tonight?

• What would you do if you could do anything for me?

• Do you want to see how long you can last tonight?

• Do you want to watch a dirty movie together?

• Do you want to have sex in your car?

• Do you want me to read you an erotic story?

• Do you want to go down on me?

• Do you want me to be rough tonight?

• Would you want to try group sex?

• Which famous person do you want to sleep with?

• Who do you want me to dress up as?

Guys, you've learned some sexually intimate questions to ask a girl. Ladies, I hope you have picked up some good ones too. There are different intensities of the questions you can ask. You can use different approaches. How effective it will be, depends on you. Perfecting these lines takes time. Both your comfort level becomes better with time. Try it out. Some may work, some will miss. But don't take it too seriously. What is important is that you are both trying and you are having fun doing it. So, keep being playful and keep the fire burning.