It's easy for guys to say they miss you. In reality, they could be saying the same thing to every girl they know. So how can you tell if he really does miss you? Well, we all know that talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words. If he does truly miss you, the behavior he demonstrates towards you will show it.
Signs He Is Desperately Missing You
You really like him and you think he really likes you too, but how can you know for sure? You think to yourself "He says he misses me all the time, so he must feel the same way I do." But then again, perhaps he means it in a friendly way.
End the confusion by focusing on what he does instead of what he says. His behaviors will certainly reveal exactly how he feels about you. Below are 10 signs that show he misses you for sure.
1. He finds excuses to talk with you
If you are getting strange little calls from him where he asks you things that are not really urgent or important, it could be that he just wants to talk to you. Whether on purpose or unconsciously, when he does this, it is a sign that he misses you. He wants to get your attention and perhaps hear your voice.
2. He tries to lengthen your conversations
Whenever you talk with him, your conversations tend to float from one topic to another. He's never the first to end the telephone call; there's always something else he seems to want to say. When a guy says he misses you, you can be sure it's true only if he makes conservations with you last longer than necessary.
3. He wants to see you face to face
He definitely misses you if he often asks to come and see you. Though you two usually have long conversations over the phone, he still wants to enjoy the moment with you in person. This is a sure sign that he's into you and that you can believe him when he says he is.
4. He asks for pictures of you
Your friends are wondering why you take so many selfies these days and your answer is this: "He says he misses me and I should send pictures!" A guy who asks for your pictures wants to remember your face or to show how cute you are to his friends. He genuinely misses you and simply put, wants to see your face when he's not with you.
5. He drunk dials you
If it's you he calls after or during a night out drinking, then his feelings for you are strong and sincere. Alcohol reduces one's inhibitions, so if he's usually too shy to open up about his feelings for you, you are going to hear all about them when he's drunk. If he has had a few beers (or shots), his drunken calls are proof of his affectionate declarations.
6. He likes to reminisce
Sometimes, when a guy says he misses you, he won't always say it in a way that's convincing. Instead, he might say something else. He may talk about fun things you used to do or your past memories together, such as the great time you had on that road trip last summer. He might find it easier to talk about the times you were together rather than about how much he misses you now.
7. A little bit of jealousy
Jealousy can be a hard emotion to deal with from guys. When jealousy is intense, it's not healthy for the guy or the girl. However, a little bit of jealousy can simply mean that the person does deeply care for you and doesn't want to lose you. Therefore, if he asks who you are with and gets a little upset when it's a guy he doesn't know, it is a clear sign that he honestly misses you and would rather you be with him than anybody else.
8. His compliments are unique, not cliche
When a guy compliments you in very specific ways, it means that not only does he miss you, but he thinks about these special little things about you. If his compliments are personal to you and not cliche, then you know you've got a guy that truly cares for you.
(Think "your eyes sparkle in the sunlight" rather than "you have nice eyes".)
9. He's your social media stalker
He likes all your pictures, watches all of your stories, and comments under your posts. In other words, he's your social media stalker. When a guy says he misses you, you will know he really means it when he constantly looks at your profile pages and online pictures. He probably doesn't even notice that he's doing it, but he can't keep himself from "following" you.
10. He actually makes plans to see you
Girls in long term relationships know how much it means when a guy actually makes plans to do something with them. At the beginning of relationships, it's not that big of a deal; he really wants you so he plans these amazing dates. Once you are in love and are his, the dates planned by him are pretty much non-existent usually. But if a guy really misses you, he will make the plans himself to make sure he gets to see you and spend quality time with you.
It does seem that men and women speak different languages sometimes, and it's a fact that people are not always honest about their feelings. However, if a man truly misses you, he won't just say it - he will show it. If you are still thinking "he said he misses me but I wonder ifs he really means it", the behaviors described above should give you the answer to your question. YOOtheme